Avoiding your feelings
I believe that suppressing negative feelings once in a while can be absolutely necessary and appropriate but it can sometimes become an issue if it becomes a pattern, and it can lead to a decline of our emotional wellbeing.
The moment I process my feelings, I learn to understand, make sense of and deal with them in healthy, productive ways. However when a unpredictable situation occurs, I usually perform a delayed reaction. Learning to process my feelings takes time and it doesn't always come naturally. I get disconnected on a heated moment, loses it and regrets thereafter. But mind you, I don't say sorry at all.
Especially when I feel number, empty and black. I find it very difficult to calm myself down if I'm not too careful on how to handle my emotional outburst.
- iannmarie
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